Raising Little Men


It’s a miracle!
February 25, 2009, 12:51 am
Filed under: Milestones, Mom fashion | Tags: , , , ,

I’M WEARING PRE-PREGANCY PANTS!  I’M WEARING PRE-PREGANCY PANTS!  I’M WEARING PRE-PREGANCY PANTS!

Is it bad that I feel the need to shout that from the rooftops?  With three boys here and my husband, I don’t think any of them can truly appreciate how good it felt to button up those pre-pregnancy jeans today.  Woot!!!!

The only sad part of the day was that as soon as I started coming down from the I-fit-in-my-jeans high, I realized they are now totally out of style, being that they are kind of a stonewashed, faded color.  Isn’t it dark jeans that is all the rage now?  I don’t even know… how sad is that.

Still… I’M WEARING PRE-PREGANCY PANTS!



Juxtaposition
February 23, 2009, 6:46 am
Filed under: Play

Conversation between the twins and me yesterday afternoon…

E:  Mommy, we’re playing with our cars.

Me:  Oooh!  That’s fun!

B:  Yeah, they are getting married.

E:  Have you ever seen two cars get married, Mommy?

Me:  No, no I have not.  This should be really interesting!



Project 365
February 19, 2009, 3:08 am
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I decided to jump in and try out Project 365. It is a project where you take a picture every day for a year. I think it will be interesting to see not only how my photography progresses, but also what I take pictures of each day!

Want to follow along? Visit http://yearinthelife.wordpress.com.



Trouble
February 19, 2009, 1:41 am
Filed under: Trials and Tribulations | Tags: , , , ,

Yesterday, my boys did not want to nap.  Because they are starting to get towards the age of giving up their nap (gasp!), we have rebranded nap time as “quiet time.”  Three activities are allowed during quiet time;  anything else is off limits.

  1. Laying down and silently reading.
  2. Sleeping.
  3. Just laying in bed.

I realize I may be the meanest mom ever with these rules, but oh well.  The boys need the rest.  Their mom needs the rest.  Quiet time will be a staple at my house until my kids move out.

Well, yesterday was one of those days when the kids did not want to do quiet time.  Because they share a room, this is a big problem.  Things actually started out okay.  Although they weren’t following the quiet time rules, they were really just talking and reading books together.  After a while, it got quiet except for the flickering sound of a few giggles.  Trouble.  So, I went up to check out what was going on.  This is what I found:

Kleenex fun

B and E had emptied an entire box of Kleenex on the floor.  Their explanation?  They were using it to decorate their bodies with hats and beards and whatnot.  I held in my anger laughter and told them simply to clean it up and hop back in bed.

In another minute, I heard them talking about making something pretty, so I ran back up to see what in the world they could be doing now.  They were ripping the Kleenex into small pieces, putting it in their mouths, and then sticking it to their Kleenex box.  That’s right folks, they were decorating with spitballs.  Oye.

The only upside of this whole experience was that everything got cleaned up pretty quickly when I told the fellas they could be done with quiet time once all of the Kleenex was in the garbage.  I guess that is not the only upside… I got to practice being patient with my two three-year-olds, which is something I rarely get to do, right?! :)



Sleep… or lack of it…
February 17, 2009, 4:40 am
Filed under: Sleep training, Trials and Tribulations | Tags: , , ,

So, I am posting at 4:30am.  My little Z, who is 4.5 months old, is up.  I hate this part of the infant years, the crying-it-out stage.  With the twins, it was actually easier for me.  There was no way I could hold the hands of both children or cuddle them both, so I didn’t have to negotiate with myself each time there was crying.  I went in, comforted them, and left.

This time, life is different.  Z is my little baby. I hate to hear him cry.  I just want to swoop in and snuggle him up with me.  However, I know that would be doing him a great disservice.  There are times when I slip, when I stay and let him hold my hands to go back to sleep.  But that always comes back to bit me in the behind because he then wants me to stay.  When I do leave, he doesn’t understand why I did, and I feel even more guilty.

So, from here on out, I am not going to stay.  I am going to let him figure out how to get himself back to sleep.  This is my solemn vow… at least until the next time I hear him crying and my heart breaks.